I'm anon because it's a bit embarrassing to admit (and people online tend to tell me I'm full of crap when I do) but I'm consciously gender-fluid. I think the way Spy explains his mindset is accurate. I identify myself as having two 'me's that are both 'me' but I'm only one or the other most of the time. The changes aren't rapid and usually a routine sets in and I'm one gender mindset or another for days or weeks. I'm enjoying this (I'm a sucker for all your stories, though) and have absolutely no complaint about they way you're pulling it off. Me likey... moar.